I am up to to my eyeballs in the sea of broken marriage so take what I say with a grain of salt. I think what your experiencing is great but be careful. I would suggest traveling at a turtles pace. Your on the rebound and feeling the high of a new relationship. From what you wrote I am seeing hints of his baggage showing. He wants to do what he wants to do and you may become an anchor. I would recommend taking it slow.