Thank you for your support pho, pigpen, Vanilla and ep0215. I have been thinking what Azzork and pho posted earlier in this thread and it gave me pause. I decided to look online for something for my wife. Not 10 minutes later I found something I loved and bought it for my wife. I wanted to, I thought long and hard and I wanted to.
V, I will follow your advice and give the friend gift to her as soon as I can. I tried to start today but life got in the way.