Wife wants to separate at end of school year

[Bhuda1]

I had a productive coaching session not too long ago. I just wish it could have lasted longer. My questions were answered but after the call more questions arose. I have to watch my spending and that is why I am deliberately spacing my coaching calls to once a month, however, if need be I will call sooner.

I have been reading the DR book. I find myself re-reading chapters for more information and reassurance. I am trying to follow through on the suggestions in the book but at times I find myself questioning my progress.

I realize patience is needed. I am quite patient in most situations and I realize there is no quick fix to my r but the lack of any visible signs from my wife that what I am doing is working is frustrating.

We are heading to Detroit for my other son's hockey tournament this coming weekend and I am looking forward to spending the time with my family. As Gogofo mentioned, if he can't be married he can't be friends. I am in conflict with that. I see how it has worked for him, but living in the same house makes it difficult for me to just be an acquaintance.

All I have right now is hope, with the Christmas season fast approaching I fear for how I will cope knowing it may be our last Christmas together as a family.i also hope that the joy and happiness the season brings will help my w realize how important it is to stay together as a family.