Thanks for the posting re: kids and adult sit. That said, I am just going crazy and probably would not do such thing as bring kids into it.
Awhile back (before I found this website) I had my suspicion of A and some solid evident but would be the fool and believe W's lies. So I took a lesson from kids' schooling and started to journal. The journal started off as facts but turned into a journal where the audience was my kids. W found it on computer.. deleted it.. held that against me for awhile. Never indented to share with kids but it helped me cope with my feelings/thoughts at that time.
I am at the early/mid phase of detaching but lost it. I suppose seeing the OM text W on our family road trip brought back a rush of memories of seeing my W's text messages to OM on summer family vacation (she sent him the icon with kisses and hearts).. I never got those! How they interacted (as if strangers) when we walked pasted him at the theme park brought back the same behavior I witnessed at S10 baseball games... to know I handed over my hard earn $$ for S10 baseball to OM and to learn OM with my W..
