Thanks Dday. I feel like I am posting too much. I am really getting dependent on this forum and feedback.
Lets just say H and I just had a "parenting discussion." We have different perspectives. I view this as a conversation starter, H views this as a conversation ender.
This is so painful. How did we get so far apart from each other? At least he's talking. That is positive. Going out with my dinner group now. Will try to check in later.