We did only three sessions of MC until I realized it wasn't going to do any good. We have since stopped joint counsel. We are both going IC and I take it as a good sign on her part. I believe she has been struggling with some depression and unresolved issues tied to her low self esteem. She has always had body image issues (I don't know why, she looks great) even since having the cosmetic surgery. Yes I now understand why MC does not work when she is actively seeking OP. One of those things I had to see to believe.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15