And sheesh, your XH is a total tool. A complete d1ckhead. He's so fortunate to have you as the mother of his daughter. Otherwise, he'd be raising a kid tool.
I agree with BA - the view from the higher road sure beats the lower road, where crap rolls down the hill.
Hugs!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."