tonight I get a completely random text from WW's best friend asking how I am and how my thanksgiving was.
That is a woman's way of finding out what you did on the holiday, if you spent it with anyone interesting, if you stayed home and had a pity party, etc. And of course, never doubt that she's not reporting to your W.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!