Wayward Wife, my addiction, advice needed

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Sandi,

Continuing with the MC is a great question. I think right now, in my meeting with MC/pastor on Friday, I'm calling it off. I'm unwilling to go to MC when we don't have both of us on board. End of story. I know he wants to help, but we're not there yet, and I think he'll be a good way to get us both to re-connect, when we're ready. She's not ready. She's grieving. Her last 3 Facebook comments are about 'holding it together'... so her fantasy world is crumbling, and I have to let it crumble.

Question - I know it falls contrary to DB, but with my addiction, I can understand if my wife wants the bedroom for sleeping at night - the dog crate is there, the kids are upstairs, so she's there for them. Should I just buy a bed for the basement? I don't think I'll be back in the master bedroom for a few months, so my thought is to make it as comfy as possible. Should I care if it sends the wife into orbit?

A friend asked me to play racquetball with him - never played. I took him up on the offer. I need to find a couple more hobbies, but I did buy a pennywhistle, and pulled a guitar out - never learned either very well. I was a band director for 5 years, and played brass. Going to play tuba for Christmas services, so have the tuba at home - gotta work on the valves and music for rehearsal next week.