Just got back from getting D braces. Texted a pic of D with her new braces to H and the same pic to my sister. H responded back "I hope she was thankful to you for this." Sister responded "Oh wow, she looks good, how is she feeling, is she in pain?"
This is the kind of thing that helps me detach. H is very much in the "what is in it for me?" mindset. He believes he is a victim of everything and every body. My attraction for him is slowly fading. Sure has taken me long enough.