Now what?

[melweb]

Thanks for the response, tl2. And I like it. We have had a traditional type marriage for most of these 21 years, with me working part time the last 5 or 6. My position/thought process has always been "I don't mind doing whatever you want me to, but don't demand it, or wig out when I didn't get to it. I didn't NOT do it just to piss you off." I have never minded being a SAHM, but always felt like HE felt I was never quite June Cleaver enough for him.
Currently there is no sex/intimacy at all, and just once since we have been here. As I said his libido is low so he just went and got some Cialis. Also we have separate bedrooms, but have for maybe 16 or 17 years.It just worked for us, and we still managed to get the deed done.

ps... I have no idea what is going with my H right now. Pretty sure it is some sort of demonic possession.