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Something neutral or let her get a bit annoyed that her left behind family aren't interested in replying?


You have to let your son and his mother work out their own relationship. Don't be the middle man.

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W wants to meet for breakfast. I'm sure she is expecting it to be the three of us. I think I did well persuading S to go to avoid her turning up in front of everyone at the station. I think in the interests of LRT and detaching it would be best for me not to go. What do you think? After all if she texts or rings to ask why, I can always say that I see S all the time I wanted to give her the chance to spend some time with him.


What is the real reason you won't be there?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!