Still on the first chapter

[Enigma]

Well... got an email from WW (she's working again as just found new job). Again her work visa situation complicated things (and another reason perhaps she's not pursuing D aggressively...)

It was a winded email basically saying:
1. Computer is in the shop so apologizing for delay in responding to email(brand new computer ???)
2. Replaced phone (again months old ???? - not understanding excuses but oh well I never advised I was upset she never got back timely and I truly wasn't).
3. Holiday schedule for S2 coming up around Christmas. Now this one is important. My mom is in town and WW is trying to accommodate (amazing).
4. She has Cervix cancer issues that requires surgery. This to happen in January likely. I read up on common issues. The most common is HPV (ie. sexually transmitted via partner). OM? Or just coincidence and genetic? The reality is.... doesn't matter. This is her path to deal with now. She is only 30. She wants me to watch S2 the weekend she needs to rest up.

I'm going to respond this afternoon. I'm thinking of starting email with validating and expressing empathy her issue of surgery #1. I don't think I will agree to watching S2 straight away as I'm thinking... what if I've already had plans? What would she do then? I'm not doing this to be harsh, but consequences of events are as they are meant to be. Next I will get into holiday schedule and my thoughts (I'll recommend some changes I see). Again, she's accommodating and working around me so I'll chalk that up. But I'm also looking to be fair to her where I can (ie. Taking my S2 New Year's as she has plans whereas I didn't).

I understand the holidays are a tough time of year given these circumstances. But I look at it this way... I'm grateful for what I have in my life today... there are many who are in very unfortunate circumstances that deserve more attention and care than anything I endure. And when I put things in perspective, I know I am blessed.