Holy smokes Mutatio! 7 years is bad ass!!! Good for you my friend. I haven't even hit the year mark so guys like you are my idols. What an amazing gift you've given to yourself and your family for 7 years.
I'd say with the gift, do what's going to make you happy. If giving your W something lights up your day, do it. If giving her nothing makes you feel better, do that. As of now this is about you, not about her. I'm not sure if my W is going to get anything from me, if she does it will only because it makes me smile - even if on some level it upsets her that I'm still on the high road.
Congrats again and thank you for being another example of masculine strength in my life.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
