Thanks PigPen. Oh yeah, forgot about the artist and you're right did put me to sleep as well... very soothing.
Thanks for the support. I'll be honest, the first 2 months I was an emotional rollercoaster. Thanks to the lurking and reading other threads here after a month in, I found the advice to others in similar situation helped me greatly. It's true no matter how many times we need to be told, focusing on ourselves during this terrible time is key. It's once I wrapped that around my brain "self care mode", things slowly became positive. Not overnight mind you, but I gradually saw an internal change.
You guys are all awesome and this is a great place. Will certainly leverage the wisdom resonating throughout this board.
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M: 33 W: 30 T: 14 M: 9 S2 BD: May/2015 (w moves into spare bedroom one week later) EA / PA (discovered): June/2015 W moves out (living with OM): Sep/2015