It's funny that you were the first to reply because immediately after I posted, I found your Tim Robbins quote in your new thread. It reminded me that I really need to appreciate what I have. I have written a list of things that I appreciate and am thankful for, but it is too easy to forget that list when I let the stress get to me - i.e. obsess of the the things I cannot control. I am going to revisit the list.
I am trying to adapt. It is just hard when someone stomps on your turf.