Thanks for all the kind words. Gonna be wifi less for the next few days, so please forgive me if I don't get around to your post.
W finally pulled the 'for the kids' card this morning. Long story short, she wanted me to do something on my moving day tomorrow, not a big job, but I've got lots on. When I said I would try to help, if I had time, I got this whole speech about being uncaring and it would hurt the kids if I didn't do it etc. That's a low blow as I have done everything to avoid hurting the kids.
So, now I've come home, and she's making a big play of taking the bed apart. I'm looking after the kids and she's huffing. She hasn't asked for assistance, so I'm not going to offer.
Hard times folks.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015