Sorry. I get so upset when I read about OW. I suspect I would have been one to cut off my nose to spite my face! You have thought this out well and you have such strength and grace. I would have been too impatient and impulsive. : )
It does sound like time will be on your side and I look forward to reading about all the positives that come from your journey.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015