pho - I read a good book about validating and promoting conversation. The best part about the book, is that it was just a list of phrases to use and then an explanation on why. It was called, talk to me like someone you love (I think). It may help promote conversation without being threatening. I know you don't want to STFU, but I think you should keep trying to stay that course. Good luck!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015