My WW - Trying To Stay Strong

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Did your W stay overnight at friends (while leaving her H and kids at home) before the troubled M?

I find it very odd that so many W's stay overnight with friends. That seems rather commonplace around the board.

Never! This is her form of seperation. She was almost crying when she walked out the door last night. When she told me she was going to stay at her freinds she said I dont want her sleeping in our bed or something like that. I but she doesnt want to pack up and leave because she whats to see S1 in morning and Evening. So she comes home after work spends time with S1. Then when i get home she went shopping last night and came home after S1 is sleeping and watched hkm while i went to gym i get home from gym she leave for her freinds sleeps there comes home in the morning drives s1 to daycare. Im guessing its her trying to get some space so she doesnt feel bad coming home late in the evening. I know she keeps saying she doesnt want to hurt me. Maybe you can shed some light on what she might be thinking. She'll probably end up saying im being selfish and that its not fair she always has to be the one to leave the house. But im not the one f'ed things up and ik not the one asking for a seperation so why should i leave?