I get that part of it azz, it's just like the past almost year... Nothing I do is ever good enough. At the start of this, 50/50 was 50/50. We each paid half of everything. Over time, (my fault for giving in) when she would cry poverty, I would step up and take care of our son. It got to the point now, that she has absolutely no financial responsibility for S4. The only thing that costs her anything is gas to come to swaps. I have even given gas money (saves me from having to travel the whole way), groceries (makes sure my child is fed), and whatever else she may have played the guilt card on.
Then she has the nerve to tell me a few weeks back that "she is proud of herself because she is doing this all on her own. Everything she has is because she busted her a**." I about fell out of my chair!
I didn't say anything at the time, just left her ramble on. But miss "independent" as she claims wants to be independent of everything but my wallet. Apparently she thinks I owe her alamony even though we were never married? That is mind reading but what else could she be looking for...
Last edited by Uphill; 12/01/1503:06 PM.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home