At first my intention was to say that what really mattered was that she wanted to go see him. Then I backtracked because if I'm worried about what she is or isn't doing it's pretty clear to me that I'm WAY too invested in her thoughts and actions.
It seems to me that I should be focused on myself, working on those goals I listed earlier (especially the ones involving my kids), and not give a rats a$$ what she does. The fact I still care about her motives suggests to me that I am not detached enough to survive the roller coaster I'm on
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou
