Hi Pink. Number 13 says it all You have to let go of the fear It's clear that XH has a hold over you and no matter how much you state your boundaries you let him break them
I'm sorry to be hard but he slept with someone else , divorced you and tells you he has feelings for someone else , come on Pink , would you let anyone treat you this way if he wasn't XH ?
I understand you love him And that's fine but boundaries should be boundaries.
Why would XH change when all he has to do is cry and your there for him.
Even my EXW has slowed down on the crying !!
Your friends on here will stand by your decision whatever you do but we all want you to be happy and your obviously not
You want XH back ( and that's hard as I'm here for you, waiting !! ) so why not try to get him back. That way you can be sure you have tried everything for you and your boys.
Your lost and you need direction how about going back to DBing from the beginning ? Accept your M is over and move forward for Pink and her boys. This does not mean dropping XH but putting him to one side to deal with his own issues. I know you were worried about him hurting himself but that's a choice only he can make.
Pink I've posted on your thread lots of times how I've fallen for you and I mean it. Your fantastic and I can only dream about finding someone half as good as you in really life You deserve so much more than what XH is offering right now
Please respect yourself and your life right now. You may have played a part in the demise of your M but XH choose his path of destruction. You told XH that you want to love and be loved properly and we all deserve that
New day tomorrow and a new Pink. No more lost , choose what you want and whatever that is , it starts with meu anjo respecting herself first. No choices re XH just a decision for Pink to get back to living life for her first and foremost XH is put to one side , boundaries is place and NEVER to be broken until Pink is ready
( if you want to start that journey with a flight to Dublin for a wild weekend with a fellow forum member , then so be it. !! !!! )
Tomorrow belo diabo , a whole new life begins and regular posts so we can encourage and support you along the way
amor e abraços, take care. Rd. ( fellow forum member in Dublin ^^^^^^)
