I have never heard of ACE scores so i will look that up and do some more reading.
The way you state about creating an environment for resiliency to thrive is a great way to look at this. I have fealt for a long time that rebuilding a foundation for a marriage is hard work, especially with people still living in it. i could have let things fall apart and just let this die, but who would that really help? Me, my kids, my wife?
Prevalidation is something ive come across a couple of times. I will do a refresher this week to see if i can gain some more insight.
I apprecite your kind words, though there are lots of times i feel anything but grounded in this
