Hey Butterc,

I have read about where you offered to your H to remove your Wedding rings. That was a very powerful moment. And him refusing to remove them was interesting. I still wear my ring, I have to take it of for work for safety but everyday I put it back on.

Some days I question why, then I just put it on anyway. In the past I used to go days with out putting it back on. I was just lazy and was not an indication of not wanting to be in MR. I can see now how that was disrespectful.

If I was going to remove my ring, they way you asked your H, the man that put it on your finger to remove it seems like a good way to do it.

For me I will keep it on.

You are doing great.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016