I have always thought of you as one of the more grounded posters here. In many ways your attitude reminds me of Edz. One of humour, insight and sense.
Change of ourselves is the main thing in my view which heals us.
CSA is one of many markers for a poor childhood. I believe we should all know our ACE score. ACE equals Adverse Childhood Experiences. These can be modified by resiliency factors.
Resiliency can be built and you are a factor in providing the environment in which resiliency thrives. This isn't work that can be done by us for another, we can however build resiliency ourselves and our children. Our own strength holds us.
I like that you chose to validate and would ask you to look at prevalidation as well. That is providing opportunities to validate, openings for it.
Thank you for your insights on my threadV
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
