Great posts above and all so wise. We try so hard to make sense of something that makes no sense! I truly believe it is all about looking within, and not many people are able to do that. I know so many unhappy older people who have lived their lives to blame everyone and everything for their unhappiness.
It scares me to death that my H will end up the same. We just don't know, so that's why it is important that we keep moving forward.
I am glad you spent your holiday with good company. ((Hugs))
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-