I have to keep reminding myself you can't rationalize the irrational. It is a no win situation because you are attempting to make sense of someone who is impulsive to the point of destruction and incapable of true reflection. Of course, this sounds like great common sense for the LBS in theory but it is incredibly hard to remember this when you are feeling low.
Bottom line is you have to focus on yourself to the point of outlandish selfishness. Bright please just focus completely on yourself.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
