This is so bittersweet. I applaud your daughter for her grace. I have to say that at hard as this has been it sounds like you have had some closure and some possibility of future contact for your children.
My heart breaks for all you have endured. There are far too many families that have been destroyed by MLC.
Sending you my best.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou