Time and age are irrelevant in healing. And healing takes as long as it takes. “I should be clear by now, it must be done” and who says we have to move by another’s timetable, according to the mean, mode or average? We are extraordinary and defiant in our time table, we move on when we are ready to move on. At our own pace and in our own time. Standing for that in which we believe, the principle of M, we can stay standing as long as we like, as much as we like. And it’s ok, to be this way is ok, absolutely it is ok. There is no doubt we are as we are. When you know, you know, when it’s time it’s time. It’s your clock, it’s your choice and your own path.
Ride it out, the thoughts, the patterns, the desires, the wants, the needs, those times when you need your choices. Your very own choices. There are those firmly in the friend box who say let’s go out, get merry, talk rubbish, pass me the salt and I will dance at your wedding.
There are others past and present who trigger romantic cravings but never satisfy them. They carry us to the best we can be. In truth this makes us who we are, in the place we are destined to be.
There is no timetable other than your own to follow.
This is RDs journey and it is his choice of speed.
RD stand for you, for M, for kids, for family, for new R and above all for WW, as long as you need and want to. For all your life if you want to.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
