I still have no access to her emails, texts, or Facebook. She says since she's at a law firm, she can't give me access, since it would break client priviledge.
This is probably true regarding a work email or work cell phone but I would highly doubt it's true with regards to personal email, personal cell phone and facebook.
If it is she may need to leave the job in order to earn your trust back. Unless she's an attorney then there really wouldn't be a point in her leaving but she would have to regain your trust in many other areas.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place