dday, attempting to find clarity

[dday]

Thanks guys. There is always the .00001% chance that my standing up for myself may help to bring her out of the fog. I'm not betting on it though. She is VERY used to getting her way on things. Especially since BD when I went into super H mode.

Most of the changes I proposed were minor, a couple words here and there. The one she will scream about is that I want bought out. It will add to her debt, but that isn't my problem. She wants me to just give her everything. That isn't fair to my kids either, I have them 3 days a week and they need a nice place to live too.

For some reason, I have the urge to tell W that although I do not want a D, I do not want her to be unhappy and if she is truly happy without me, then I will not stand in her way. Also, I would like to ask her to promise me if she changes her mind to tell me. Forget pride or whatever. I would think that she would, the old W would, if nothing more than for the sake of the boys.

Time will tell.