Its hard to believe that she does not feel separated. We have no physical contact anymore, none. The most we have had is when we were decorating the Christmas tree and her finger touched mine as she handed me an ornament.
How can she not feel anything? It has been months now of being in this sitch.
I have read Flights thread and to see how his changed to a point that he had enough and told his W that he would not have an open MR was something that will stick with me. Because I know my W has it in her head that we are S and so much so that she is willing to entertain the idea of OM, secretly though.
This is a boundary that I feel is something I am going to have to give if she overtly says she is looking for other men. She is leaving her phone and ipad open for eyes to see but I don't look. I feel she leaves it out as a way of communicating to me, but I refuse to take the bate.
I don't understand why is she ok with me going to her parents house for Christmas, allowing the kids to not know what their parent relationship is, with about a month to go, More then enough time to get the S agreement sorted. Yet she does no work on it. and she complains that we are still in the same house.
If she wants out so bad why is she dragging her feet??
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
