Wife checked out

[2ltl2lt]

Really we are just getting started down this path. IC recognizes the fact that my way of providing for my family was contributing to the deterioration of my MR. I never separated my needs from my family's needs and it put a strain on our MR. W and I centered our lives around our children and didn't allow time to be alone together. We ended up living separate lives. Her the single working mother and me the overly determined workaholic. A few weeks before BD I committed to not work weekends at all and to be home earlier everyday. Which fell upon deaf ears as 2ltl2lt. I, like many in this sich, thought I was doing right for the family, when in fact was just pushing her further and further away. It happens so gradually and so quietly it becomes nearly imperceptible. I remain hopeful and attached at this point. Going to have to get past this before I can really reidentify myself. Still too focused on the MR.