So, we decided on a nontraditional thanksgiving this year; short road-trip. We hit the road Tuesday after work. Wife offered to drive first leg so that I don't have to drive the entire 6 hours.
Kids fall asleep. Three hours into the drive, it's 9pm (of course traffic), wife's phone is in the center console's cup holder, she gets a text and it's from the OM. I ask her if she would like me to drive so she can answer him. She does not respond to me but continues with our conversation; ignoring my jab.
We make a rest stop. When she returns to the vehicle she places her iPhone turned screen down on the floor. I jab her again, saying she doesn't have to turn your phone screen down to hide his texting.. shouldn't take the risk of scratching iPhone screen; she ignores me again and doesn't fall for it.
I was loosing control of my thoughts and emotions. The first 2 days at theme park I can't shake off the fact that she is still communicating with him. It was impacting MY TIME and SPACE with MY KIDS.