I'm glad Thanksgiving weekend is over! I know we still have Christmas and New Year's and Valentine's Day and my birthday coming up and....oh well I shouldn't worry ahead.
Sotto, my H hasn't told his parents yet either. I think he is hoping for them to get a whiff from his sister, but his sister insists H has to tell them himself.
H came over on Sat night to see the kids and it was fine. I guess he was in no hurry (prob. OW was working or something), so he was pleasant and a little more engaged, asked questions how our day was etc. He said to the kids "see you tomorrow" when he left, but he did not show up on Sun. So I asked him not to do that to the kids. H said he is sorry, he was gonna come, but it gets hard to come & see the kids just a little bit, but he really did want to see them. I don't really know what it means or if he means it, so I just left at it and didn't reply.
Do people stay in the same town/city after D? When I take out the kids or go out to dinner or something, it pains me so much because I have been everywhere with H in this city. It is a big city, but after all, we spent 13 years here and every restaurant or park just reminds me of memories with H. I know I shouldn't live in the past, but I can't help it...
