It hurt me when my W during the argument said that we have not been separated all these months. It felt like all the pain I was feeling she did not feel it. its like she is saying all the lonely nights didn't happen.
Vise, when will you accept the fact she does not see things the same as you? She doesn't "feel" separated b/c the two of you are still under the same roof......which is too close for her.
The pain and loneliness didn't happen for her! It happened only for you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
