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This hurts. Worse each time I get betrayed.


How many times has she betrayed you?

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Today I woke up wondering why I'm even trying. I know 5 months is nothing in DB time, but it felt like I was making progress. Real progress. And I thought I saw signs my wife was trying. Instead, I got kicked in the groin.... I guess all the things my W was doing to help out/make me feel better about the relationship was just a rouse.


What are you referring to, exactly?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!