Thanks. Let's hope we can help each other towards better lives. Hard to follow your own advice! Today W texted family group in the afternoon asking us if we have done anything special as today we had a day off school/ work. We haven't replied but what gets me is I told her after basket S would be busy studying for exams. I notice she never texts on Sundays when she is busy with OM. The timing of the text today is when she has finished work and OM is back working .S not interested in replying. I haven't so far. Something neutral or let her get a bit annoyed that her left behind family aren't interested in replying?
