Wife checked out

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I realized something this morning at IC, I have been so accustomed to putting others needs ahead of my own that I had lost some of my own identity. We were so "busy" raising kids and careers that we didn't do much to nurture our R. In the process I became a robot of sorts going through the motions without any real growth for myself. I have always considered myself a strong confident person who could handle anything thrown my way but in the meantime I forgot who I was as a man as a father and as a husband. It sometimes feels like I have just been awoken from a four year slumber. Rip Van Winkle style.

To the ladies out there: Grab your man by the scruff of his neck and solidly slap his face and tell him what's on your mind. Us men need that sometimes!