For me gifts are for giving so it is the giver who decides. I have struggled this year each occasion to decide if I wanted to give something. So far I have always wanted to so I did.
Christmas may be the first time I decide not to. I don't like my W too much lately though I love her a lot.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
