Tl2.. Those are great words, and you are right, we are not quitters. But as they say it takes 2 to make a marriage and only 1 to end it. I am not a selfless giver by any means. I Am beginning to see that it is not fair to ourselves to accept certain behavior that we know is wrong in the battle to preserve a marriage. there is a fine line between enabling destructive behavior and unfair choices and working hard to save a marriage. If we can't do what is right and best for ourselves, then we can't expect them to treat us that way either. I am learning this and getting my old self back. Thank you
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
