I'm also thinking that a written record of how things are unfolding might be a good thing for legal reasons, if I ever needed to refer to them at a future point.
Does this make me devious or manipulative? I'm worried that it does and feel a bit down about that.
Absolutely not! It makes you rational and thoughtful.
Originally Posted By: focus22
He thinks that life has been unfair to him and that being married to me has stopped him from having been able to do all the things he's always wanted to do.
This is what I heard from H while the A was still active, and for a while afterwards. I haven't heard it in a while now - but the A has supposedly been over for close to a year.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
