My therapist told me that I got over it so quickly bc deep inside, I knew that day was coming and was "prepared" not sure I agree 100% but regardless. Reason I say that is that my situation seems fast to most people, so please don't think I'm claiming to know the right answers....just what worked for me..
My XW said to me, "I am going to date other people, you can do whatever you want, but this is happening whether you like it or not."
Not saying you're being given the same choice, but even if it's close....is there a choice.?
Don't chase a girl that doesn't want you to catch her.
As of December 2023 Me: 45 XW: 43 S13 S10 ILYBINILWY: 11/14/2014 OM: 11/14/2014 D process: 12/14/2014 D final: 04/2015