Incrementally give more daily responsibilities to the kids (household chores) Continue to run and lift at least twice a week Finish organizing the garage Join a weekly sports activity or a new class at local community college Volunteer at school activities once a month
Two weeks ago on a Friday night when I had the kids at the house and W was doing the softball routine with OM I completely painted the MBR green. She was at the house that day and came back the next morning to find me loading up a pile of old toys and clothes the kids didn't need anymore and that she was saving for a "garage sale " for the last three years in my truck to take to goodwill. While I was carrying stuff to the truck I saw her standing in the doorway of the MBR hands on hips. She came over to watch what I was doing and said she needed to "go through " this stuff. I said well you have about 10 minutes. Then she said I can't believe you painted the MBR and asked when I did it. I said well you were here yesterday and it's done now so.... She didn't interfere with me hauling off the stuff after that. Then she left to play in a softball tournament. I've always wanted a green bedroom.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15
