Becky - thanks. I agree, no gift for the H. BIL moved away in August and isn't coming home for the holidays so I would mail his package. I probably won't be invited over for Christmas but I do have lunch with SIL and go to church with MiL and FIL without H. He never wanted to go to service but we do. I do still have some sort of relationship with them.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
