Your H no longer wants you for his wife. That means no gift for him.

Are you spending time with inlaws? Do you usually buy them gifts? If you still have a relationship with them then I think it's ok.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming