dday, attempting to find clarity

[dday]

Thanks tl2, I worked tons of OT over the last few years. Paid off everything by the time we were 32. Nice home, 2 decent cars, etc. Then we moved to a bigger house in a town we wanted to be in. She has a brand new ride, I gave mine up since I was commuting and bought a little car.

After all of that, she is mad that I have worked so much and missed out on things at home. I never missed a ballgame. Missed 1 church program when I was sick. But that is what is remembered right now.

So, I too have sacrificed, and was penalized for it. I have been demonized. I have definately screwed up over the years, but it was little things that apparently added up. My W is passive aggressive too. We would have a big blowup once or twice a year instead of a conversation when the little stuff happened.

That is why I am here. The biannual arguments, according to her, made her fall out of love.