Second weird thing - she bought a semi clingy top while shopping and I accidentally walking on her while she was trying it on in the bathroom. I called her out so I could look at it and I realized she wasn't wearing any pants. It was not at all planned, but I'm pretty sure my response (jaw drop, dilated pupils, increased heart rate) let her know she looked damn good. She got a a cute/flirty school girl look on her face when she asked what I thought of it. I told her she looked great in it and as long as she was at home I would never ask her to wear pants, lol. After she playfully punched me in the chest she told me I was supposed to be looking at the shirt. I told her I was looking at the total package. Dear lord help me, but I think we're starting to flirt again. Never saw that coming, but I like it!
Only a LBS would see this as a good sign. You've got it all wrong. It means NOTHING to her. Some WW's get their kicks in turning the sexual heat up on the LBH's. It does NOT mean a darn thing! It is fun & games for you to be drooling and bugging eyes at her. It is ego food for her. What you see as her "flirting" is actually her encouraging you to give her more ego food.
You will have it turned in the right direction when she is the one drooping and panting over you. Next time, turn around and walk out. She is cheating on you, man! And you are snuggling up to her every morning for your cuddling time?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
