Wanting to date your H is not terrible. But it's also what makes this so hard. And before you ask, yes, I'm in the same place.

Welcome to our mutual dysfunctions. It's hard to be hopeful without getting our hopes up.

Any word on when the papers might be signed?

Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou